So today, actually, was the vet visit for Cooper.
Indeed, he was dehydrated. Doctor injected him with some fluids, which they do in a big blob on the back of his shoulders, where all the extra dog skin is, and it absorbs into the body from there. He also got a shot of anti-nausea medication, which is the same meds they give the dogs that are getting chemotherapy, so he really should be well medicated there. Also, they took some blood for testing, and as of this afternoon, could find nothing wrong with his organ function (yay!), or his levels in any way (yay!).
Doctor said that we should feed him some bland chicken tonight, which we did, in small portions and with an hour or so between each meal. I don't know when I can go back to feeding him his normal food, in small portions, but I'm thinking about doing that tomorrow morning. Or maybe more chicken because I'm afraid of him getting sick again. He has been drinking more water than he did the last few days, and that's good, because I think he's getting more confident in not vomiting immediately after. I'm really excited about what a full night's sleep will do for him. So, having said that, it's time for us to go night nights.
Thursday, March 31
Wednesday, March 30
What did you do on this day on Facebook?
I'm obsessed with the "On This Day" feature of Facebook. It's the first thing I check every day, and I get super disappointed if I don't see it in my feed in the morning. The best part about it, of course, are the Sydney posts from years past. Some make me chuckle, others make me all melancholy for the baby she was. A couple times I felt sad, but those were mainly Daisy posts. She was a funny little dog, you know.
Mostly, and weirdly, the posts make me happy that I've lived my life on Facebook so much. Every day there are posts that engage, entertain and give me feels, and that's the best gift of all. I've always wanted to be able to access my former posts, and while I can't bring these up at will, or see them in a list or anything, they're certainly a treat.
I can't wait to see what I did on this day tomorrow.
Tuesday, March 29
Super Cooper isn't feeling well at all
I'm blogging from my phone tonight because Cooper's not feeling well, and we're cuddling in bed while he sleeps. He's been throwing up all over the place for the last couple days, actually just a couple times a day, but he can't even keep water down now. We're off to the vet tomorrow. I can't have a sick Cooper. He's too awesome to be sick.
My prediction on the vet bill tomorrow: office visit, of course; IV fluids because he's dehydrated; extended office stay, since he'll have to chill out while getting his fluids; a blood test to see if they can pinpoint what's making him sick; and some kind of medication, I'm thinking a shot of some kind.
The last thing we need this week is a vet bill, but I won't have him sick anymore. I can't stress about it. He needs to feel better.
Monday, March 28
Tiny Thing #212: Jalapeno Jack SunChips, man
It's a night for a Tiny Thing to Write About. Following, is #212.
You've just heard that your favorite potato chip flavor will no longer be available. Write an indignant letter to the manufacturer.
Dear SunChips:
There are very few delicious and perfect chips in this world. Your Jalapeno Jack flavor is one of those chips. That you have chosen to discontinue this delicious chip is a travesty to the chip aisle, and a blight on mankind's accomplishments in the world. They have the ideal combination of spicy, salty and superb flavor. There aren't many chips of which I can sit and eat the entire bag in one afternoon. I love these chips, you guys, and I'm beyond irritated that you are taking them away from me. How dare you force me into tasting a whole bunch of other, inferior chips to find a replacement? Do you know how long it could be before I find that replacement? I think you should reimburse me for all the chips I have to taste before I find the one I like almost as much as the Jalapeno Jack. In fact, that will be my vow to you. I am going to send you every receipt for every bag of chips I buy in hopes of finding my Jalapeno Jack replacement, with an invoice for you to pay to me. And you will send me checks. I'll let you know if I find anything as good, because I'm not a crook, but I expect you to hold up your end of this bargain.
[Editor's note: I know SunChips aren't potato chips, but I took a bit of a license there to change it up for a real-life situation.]
You've just heard that your favorite potato chip flavor will no longer be available. Write an indignant letter to the manufacturer.
Dear SunChips:
There are very few delicious and perfect chips in this world. Your Jalapeno Jack flavor is one of those chips. That you have chosen to discontinue this delicious chip is a travesty to the chip aisle, and a blight on mankind's accomplishments in the world. They have the ideal combination of spicy, salty and superb flavor. There aren't many chips of which I can sit and eat the entire bag in one afternoon. I love these chips, you guys, and I'm beyond irritated that you are taking them away from me. How dare you force me into tasting a whole bunch of other, inferior chips to find a replacement? Do you know how long it could be before I find that replacement? I think you should reimburse me for all the chips I have to taste before I find the one I like almost as much as the Jalapeno Jack. In fact, that will be my vow to you. I am going to send you every receipt for every bag of chips I buy in hopes of finding my Jalapeno Jack replacement, with an invoice for you to pay to me. And you will send me checks. I'll let you know if I find anything as good, because I'm not a crook, but I expect you to hold up your end of this bargain.
[Editor's note: I know SunChips aren't potato chips, but I took a bit of a license there to change it up for a real-life situation.]
Saturday, March 26
It was a somewhat productive day, friends
So the grossest thing lately is how unvacuumed my floors and carpets are. I knew that I would get that done today though, because honestly, my dog is smelling like floor dust, and that horrifies me. My morning got away from me a bit though, but I did get some preliminary vacuuming done on the stairs. To my surprise, Brian was on top of doing the more thorough stairs vacuuming, so they look awesome. Tonight, I finally got back to the vacuum and took care of my bedroom carpet, even going so far as to use the attachment to be sure all the corners and baseboards were clean. I did the hardwood floors in the hallways and loft, too. I'm eager to take the vacuum downstairs in the morning, because that space, obviously, needs the attention more than anywhere else. And hopefully I'll feel better about my house after that.
The ungrowing rose bush in the rose garden came out of the ground really easily this afternoon, to make room for the lavender, theoretically. I say theoretically because I'm not sure if I want to plant the lavender in there and then leave it when we move. I'd almost rather leave the empty space and put the lavender in pots on my patio. Also, I need to figure out how to harvest and prepare rosemary and wild mint.
The ungrowing rose bush in the rose garden came out of the ground really easily this afternoon, to make room for the lavender, theoretically. I say theoretically because I'm not sure if I want to plant the lavender in there and then leave it when we move. I'd almost rather leave the empty space and put the lavender in pots on my patio. Also, I need to figure out how to harvest and prepare rosemary and wild mint.
Thursday, March 24
She will not eat frosting tomorrow
ITEM!: Sydney and I (or just I) made strawberry cupcakes tonight
for the Easter weekend. She wanted yellow frosting for them, but the
store only had yellow frosting in lemon flavor, so we bought the white
frosting and I'll add some yellow food coloring to it tomorrow. Yes,
they will be frosted tomorrow night, because Sydney has the day off, and
I will NOT leave her with a tray full of frosted strawberry
cupcakes, or the leftover tub of frosting in the fridge. There very well
may not be anything left when I got home if I did that. No, the frosting is for Friday night.
ITEM!: I learned how to create a meme today, and while I haven't decided how much of my life I will devote to the science, I'm excited to make it part of my regular technological skills. Josh is awesome for giving me the heads up on his meme generating app, but I really should have done the most minimal research myself because his mind-blowing app that generates memes is called Meme Generator. A bit anti-climactic and self-explanatory, thus my duh-ness about not finding it on my own and sooner than today. But as it is, now I know how to make a meme, and I'm feeling pretty good about myself because of it.
ITEM!: My weekend should be super low-key, except for the bunny thing on Sunday, and I'm actually really looking forward to doing some backyard work. (It should be relatively cool enough for that.) The rosemary needs to be cut back a lot, and I think we'll try to pull out that one rose bush so we can plant the lavender. It's time to Google how to prepare rosemary. Do you have to dry it? Maybe I'll jar it up for people I love. I should investigate harvesting my wild mint, as well. It's getting a bit out of control. Garden!
ITEM!: I learned how to create a meme today, and while I haven't decided how much of my life I will devote to the science, I'm excited to make it part of my regular technological skills. Josh is awesome for giving me the heads up on his meme generating app, but I really should have done the most minimal research myself because his mind-blowing app that generates memes is called Meme Generator. A bit anti-climactic and self-explanatory, thus my duh-ness about not finding it on my own and sooner than today. But as it is, now I know how to make a meme, and I'm feeling pretty good about myself because of it.
ITEM!: My weekend should be super low-key, except for the bunny thing on Sunday, and I'm actually really looking forward to doing some backyard work. (It should be relatively cool enough for that.) The rosemary needs to be cut back a lot, and I think we'll try to pull out that one rose bush so we can plant the lavender. It's time to Google how to prepare rosemary. Do you have to dry it? Maybe I'll jar it up for people I love. I should investigate harvesting my wild mint, as well. It's getting a bit out of control. Garden!
Wednesday, March 23
We won spring picture day
Sydney and I are feeling pretty triumphant, as a duo, the last couple days. Yesterday was spring pictures day at school. Spring pictures are typically posed, and she doesn't like that. In fact, last year she was pissed to have been posed, and was in a horrible mood about it even in the afternoon when I picked her up. We decided that this spring, I would write her a note, and she would get to pose however she wanted. So, yesterday morning, I wrote a note that said, "To whom it may concern: Sydney G. has my permission to pose in the way that we decided on together. Call me with any questions. Thank you, Kimberly G. (her mom)" The photographer took the note, kinda skimmed it, and began to pose her. She said to him, "Did you even read the note?" He then took the note out of his pocket, read it, shrugged, and told her to go ahead and pose how she wanted. And with that, we (I hope) have a totally awesome spring picture this year. The posed and unhappy photos were not too fantastic. That was her triumph.
Today, I killed a mosquito in the car. And then I used my Starbucks app to order my tea when I was running late for work after lunch.
Today, I killed a mosquito in the car. And then I used my Starbucks app to order my tea when I was running late for work after lunch.
Tuesday, March 22
I'm a groupie for Danny Archer
I'm watching Blood Diamond right now, and I think I have a little crush on Danny Archer. I can't not watch this movie whenever it's on, and I'm always just kinda staring at him. I totally only watch it for him. Weird. I don't have crush-ish feelings for Leonardo DiCaprio in general, though it would be nice if he was in a movie lately where he didn't die at the end (I haven't seen The Revenant, yet; no spoilers). He perfectly embodies the bad boys that have always been my Kryptonite: blond, embarrassingly confident, just that little bit of dangerous, but still pretty awesome to be around.
Jeez, I'll not get any of my book read if this movie stays on. I'll have to turn it off soon so I can get a few chapters done.
Jeez, I'll not get any of my book read if this movie stays on. I'll have to turn it off soon so I can get a few chapters done.
Monday, March 21
Time to crack a book, friends
I hate it when I've got a book to read, and I have to read it this week because it's due on Saturday. Granted, I've had the book for more than two weeks, but I've had a hard time sitting down and reading lately, and not being able to renew this one is particularly irksome. But I've started it now, and read a chapter, so it's just a matter of my deciding I think it's wonderful, and then sitting down with it. I had thought to have all my number crunching and blogging done by 10 p.m. so I could read for an hour or two before bed. As it's only 10:04 p.m. right now, I may be somewhat on track for that.
I've found a picture, and it's 10:07 p.m. Time to go.
I've found a picture, and it's 10:07 p.m. Time to go.
Sunday, March 20
A new drink, and all is well in the world
It's always an exciting and good day when I try and like a new drinks at Starbucks. Mom told me that I would enjoy the iced mango black tea, and I'm happy to report that she was absolutely right. I decided to try it today at my coffee date with Patty, and I'm super glad that I did. Of course, the first order came with lemonade in it, and, having not tried the drink before, I didn't notice the lemonade taste, and was none the wiser. But when I ordered my $0.50 refill, the barista told me that lemonade drinks don't qualify, and I was all, "Wait. There was lemonade in this? I didn't want lemonade." So I got my cheap refill without lemonade, and it was much better.
Pros to Iced Mango Black Tea: Refreshing, tasty, different, cold.
Cons to Iced Mango Black Tea: Mango syrup equals calories.
Unfortunately, the 120 calories is a bit of a deal breaker when it comes to the drink being my new go-to for the afternoon every day. Having said that, I won't deny myself completely.
Other drinks from Starbucks I'd like to try, and will, when I remember that I want to try them when I'm in one of their stores: Iced English Breakfast Tea Latte; Iced Skinny Mocha; Strawberries & Creme Frappuccino (it would need to be a tall, nonfat, with no whipped cream); Iced coffee with milk.
Pros to Iced Mango Black Tea: Refreshing, tasty, different, cold.
Cons to Iced Mango Black Tea: Mango syrup equals calories.
Unfortunately, the 120 calories is a bit of a deal breaker when it comes to the drink being my new go-to for the afternoon every day. Having said that, I won't deny myself completely.
Other drinks from Starbucks I'd like to try, and will, when I remember that I want to try them when I'm in one of their stores: Iced English Breakfast Tea Latte; Iced Skinny Mocha; Strawberries & Creme Frappuccino (it would need to be a tall, nonfat, with no whipped cream); Iced coffee with milk.
Saturday, March 19
It was a nice, little Saturday
NO-ELECTRONICS DAY: When she woke me up at 6:48 this morning wanting to trade today for tomorrow as no-electronics day, I became very, very concerned for how the following hours would go. But, after I explained to her that at least today I had a bunch of stuff for us to do, and tomorrow would probably be an at-home day mostly, she was more on board with keeping today as our no-electronics day. As it went, I feel pretty good about how she did. I think she only got bored for a few minutes this afternoon, but then we turned on Netflix and found a show to watch, and then all was well. As for me without electronics today, it was liberating and awesome. I actually laid down and closed my eyes for a few minutes rather than take any time to check Facebook or Instagram. It was lovely. I may or may not roll without social media (because really, that's all it was) tomorrow, too.
PLANTINGS: The bougainvillea is now safe, secure and happy in a good-sized pot outside my front door. I think it'll do okay, but I'm a little concerned about any lack of sunshine. Still, it's watered and has a beautiful place to hang out and watch the world go by. The raspberry bush also got replanted, though I'm off to Lowe's again to pick up some nitrogen fertilizer and a soil pH testing kit. Apparently, the raspberries need acidic soil, just like the blueberries. I'm considering other options with my lavender, too. All of a sudden, I'm super not eager to leave my awesome plants when we move from this house. I'll want to take my fantastic gardenia, and probably my plumeria, too. I'm also thinking that the blueberries will be easier to handle in separate large pots next to each other rather than in one super, large bin. The soil will be easier to control that way. My wheels are turning for my backyard, you guys, and I can't wait to dig in more.
WORST COOKS IN AMERICA: This is the show Sydney got me watching today, and while it was entertaining, it also made me feel super inferior in my cooking skills. Granted, my cooking skills are inferior, but having Bobby Flay and Anne Burrell laughing at someone for not dicing an onion incorrectly, as I would have diced an onion, did little for my confidence. I make some kick-ass macaroni and cheese, and can heat up a frozen pizza like a boss. My kid will never starve. Still, they get much better than me, and manage to cook much better than me, even as they are the worst cooks ever.
PLANTINGS: The bougainvillea is now safe, secure and happy in a good-sized pot outside my front door. I think it'll do okay, but I'm a little concerned about any lack of sunshine. Still, it's watered and has a beautiful place to hang out and watch the world go by. The raspberry bush also got replanted, though I'm off to Lowe's again to pick up some nitrogen fertilizer and a soil pH testing kit. Apparently, the raspberries need acidic soil, just like the blueberries. I'm considering other options with my lavender, too. All of a sudden, I'm super not eager to leave my awesome plants when we move from this house. I'll want to take my fantastic gardenia, and probably my plumeria, too. I'm also thinking that the blueberries will be easier to handle in separate large pots next to each other rather than in one super, large bin. The soil will be easier to control that way. My wheels are turning for my backyard, you guys, and I can't wait to dig in more.
WORST COOKS IN AMERICA: This is the show Sydney got me watching today, and while it was entertaining, it also made me feel super inferior in my cooking skills. Granted, my cooking skills are inferior, but having Bobby Flay and Anne Burrell laughing at someone for not dicing an onion incorrectly, as I would have diced an onion, did little for my confidence. I make some kick-ass macaroni and cheese, and can heat up a frozen pizza like a boss. My kid will never starve. Still, they get much better than me, and manage to cook much better than me, even as they are the worst cooks ever.
Friday, March 18
No phone, no computer, no idea how it'll go
Sydney and I are having a day without electronics tomorrow. Well, a day without phones and a computer. Well, I'll still have my phone, but only for talking and texting because safety and life. But on the whole, we'll have a day with nothing to entertain ourselves but ourselves. And I'm actually kind of excited about it. I mean, it's a Super Secret Girl Day anyway, and now it'll be us really spending time engaging with each other. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't really curious how this day will go. I'm as connected electronically as she, and I may go through just as much withdrawal as she does. But I'm looking forward to seeing what kind of trouble we get ourselves into. It's for sure that my list will get done, though!
Thursday, March 17
Chocolate, molasses and marshmallows, oh my
I finally unpacked our bags from California tonight. I can't decide if I was in denial or what, but I did not want to admit that my awesome weekend was over. And I guess now it is over, since now all the clothes are either rehung or in the dirty clothes hamper. *sigh*
But today is St. Patrick's Day, and that makes it a very good day. I wore green, as did Brian, as did Sydney. If I had some green ribbon, my dogs also would have worn green today. I didn't have anything Irish and random to eat tonight, but I did drink a beer with my leprechaun Gramps, so there's that.
Also, there are only two See's molasses chips in my refrigerator. I don't know what happened to the rest of them, but there only are two left. One is dark chocolate and one is milk chocolate. When Mom bought the box, she asked me if I preferred milk chocolate or dark, and at the time, I had no real preference. But as it stands now, I think I prefer the milk chocolate. It tastes ... chocolatier, if that's a word (which Blogger is telling me right now it is not a word).
We've opened the Peeps, too. It's only a matter of time before we're totally and completely consumed by sugar. Too much sugar, my friends. We're standing on a precipice.
But today is St. Patrick's Day, and that makes it a very good day. I wore green, as did Brian, as did Sydney. If I had some green ribbon, my dogs also would have worn green today. I didn't have anything Irish and random to eat tonight, but I did drink a beer with my leprechaun Gramps, so there's that.
Also, there are only two See's molasses chips in my refrigerator. I don't know what happened to the rest of them, but there only are two left. One is dark chocolate and one is milk chocolate. When Mom bought the box, she asked me if I preferred milk chocolate or dark, and at the time, I had no real preference. But as it stands now, I think I prefer the milk chocolate. It tastes ... chocolatier, if that's a word (which Blogger is telling me right now it is not a word).
We've opened the Peeps, too. It's only a matter of time before we're totally and completely consumed by sugar. Too much sugar, my friends. We're standing on a precipice.
Wednesday, March 16
Tiny Thing #486: The devil's fruit
I'm giving myself 15 minutes to write up this post and put the computer away. All this because if I don't give myself the time limit, I'll end up sitting here with my computer for way longer than I want to, letting it get super late. But the hitch in my get-along is that I don't have a single idea of what to write about. I need to start keeping a better log of my ideas as I go through the day. I swear I had three different ideas today, and now I can't remember a single one of them. That's very disappointing. So, I'm thinking it's a day for a Tiny Thing to Write About: #486
You open your fridge and realize someone has replaced all your food with things you hate to eat. Describe what's in there.
First and foremost, there is the worst drink I've ever tried, banana milk. Brian tricked me into trying it in a misguided moment of trust, and it continues to haunt me. What else? Bananas in anything and everything. Coconut. Avocados. Rye bread. Dijon mustard. Horseradish. Bananas. Dr. Pepper. Cauliflower. Blue cheese dressing. Caviar. Egg nog. Bananas.
You open your fridge and realize someone has replaced all your food with things you hate to eat. Describe what's in there.
First and foremost, there is the worst drink I've ever tried, banana milk. Brian tricked me into trying it in a misguided moment of trust, and it continues to haunt me. What else? Bananas in anything and everything. Coconut. Avocados. Rye bread. Dijon mustard. Horseradish. Bananas. Dr. Pepper. Cauliflower. Blue cheese dressing. Caviar. Egg nog. Bananas.
Tuesday, March 15
So now she's in charge of that, too
I read an interesting article tonight about a survey sample of kids who wanted their parents to not post as much about them on social media. Granted, it was a small segment of kids, but I have to wonder if all the posts I make about Sydney will come back to embarrass her later in life. It won't be long until she takes full control of her digital identity, and when she does, she may or may not like several posts I've written about her. At that point, I guess, we'll go through my social media and delete anything she finds offensive to her sensibility. (Although I know that nothing ever really gets deleted from the Internet.) I'm pleased to say that, at the least, I've never tagged her face in anything. I don't even know if that really means anything to the Internet, but it seems like somewhat of a protective move to me.
Anyway, it gave me food for thought in regards to her feelings about my posting to Facebook. So she and I discussed it, and I reminded her that she's in charge of herself online, and that if she objects to me posting something, I won't post it. (Just as I ask Brian's permission before tagging him or sharing a pic of him.) Her wishes are important, I told her, and I respect her feelings on the subject. So all it is, really, is my having to ask someone else before I post to Facebook.
Having said that, I hope she doesn't veto anything too funny. And oh my goodness, if she ever reads the blog. (But it's "anonymous," I guess, so I'm good to go there.)
By the way, yesterday she asked me when she'll be old enough for an Instagram account.
Anyway, it gave me food for thought in regards to her feelings about my posting to Facebook. So she and I discussed it, and I reminded her that she's in charge of herself online, and that if she objects to me posting something, I won't post it. (Just as I ask Brian's permission before tagging him or sharing a pic of him.) Her wishes are important, I told her, and I respect her feelings on the subject. So all it is, really, is my having to ask someone else before I post to Facebook.
Having said that, I hope she doesn't veto anything too funny. And oh my goodness, if she ever reads the blog. (But it's "anonymous," I guess, so I'm good to go there.)
By the way, yesterday she asked me when she'll be old enough for an Instagram account.
Monday, March 14
Blueberries will grow in the desert ... right?
ITEM!: Mom, Sydney and I ventured to and wandered through the nursery out in Ventura the other day, and came home with a whole lot of plants for the desert. They're not really for the desert, but we're bringing them to the desert. Two blueberry bushes, one raspberry bush, two lavender plants and two bougainvillea are now snug as bugs in my backyard, waiting to be planted. We bought pots for the raspberries and the bougainvillea so I can take them with me when we leave this house, but the lavender will probably stay. The blueberries will be planted in a plastic bin with drainage holes drilled into the bottom (like I saw online a while ago) so I can better maintain the soil, as well as transport the berries when we need to move. Sydney and I are super excited to plant the bougainvillea, lavender and raspberries this weekend. The blueberries may have to wait a couple weeks, though. New fruit project! Just as awesome as our apple orchard!
ITEM!: Oliver's tummy skin infection has returned, and I'm in full-on mommy mode about it. Looks like I'll be shampooing tummy every night for a week or so until it goes away. Lovely. It's only a struggle because he can't stand very well on his back legs. The whole thing is a process and a half, and he can't be helpful, really. It makes me sad he can't just be fine, you know?
ITEM!: Since today is Pi Day, we ate pies for dinner. I heated up both a pizza (pie) and a chicken pot (pie) for dinner that we all shared, and we baked a cherry (pie) for dessert. Never let it be said that we would ever deny ourselves a holiday for math, when we can eat something delicious, too.
ITEM!: Oliver's tummy skin infection has returned, and I'm in full-on mommy mode about it. Looks like I'll be shampooing tummy every night for a week or so until it goes away. Lovely. It's only a struggle because he can't stand very well on his back legs. The whole thing is a process and a half, and he can't be helpful, really. It makes me sad he can't just be fine, you know?
ITEM!: Since today is Pi Day, we ate pies for dinner. I heated up both a pizza (pie) and a chicken pot (pie) for dinner that we all shared, and we baked a cherry (pie) for dessert. Never let it be said that we would ever deny ourselves a holiday for math, when we can eat something delicious, too.
Sunday, March 13
It's not Saturday, but I'm spooning him anyway
Oh, I was so sad and now I'm so happy! I brought Oliver upstairs for bed but he was all antsy and wanted to go back downstairs. So I was all sad that he didn't want to sleep with me, but then he went outside, and now I can hear him coming back up the stairs! Yay sleeping with Mommy!
And now he's drinking a whole lot of water. And now, I've put him on the bed and he's settled into a comfy position. I feel so much better now.
I miss my boys so much when we're gone to California. Everyone will sleep better with everyone under the same roof.
Also, I spilled a Coke on my lap this afternoon, and while I was able to change my jeans, my panties were not easy enough to switch in the car, so I did a majority of the drive in slightly damp, soda panties. Gross.
Saturday, March 12
Friday, March 11
A Friday-night, Calfornia-based ITEM! list
ITEM!: My brother kinda picked an ideological argument with me tonight regarding abortion, and he did his best to mansplain to me how Republicans don't really have problems with abortion and how I'm "confused" with my facts. I'm in a bit of a snit about it still, only because I hate, hate, hate talking politics with my brothers because we're on such opposite ends about everything, and they tend to look at me and talk to me like I'm still a little 9-year-old girl who they think doesn't know anything. And I know abortion rights, and I won't be condescended about it. So that's that.
ITEM!: The car issue from Wednesday seems to have resolved itself, and I didn't have to take it in to the VW dealer this morning. Typically, I'm super skeptical of a situation or problem just fixing, or just being okay. This isn't any different. Apparently, the kid that changed the battery left the power source unconnected too long and the computer had a fit of some kind. The random dashboard lights are the result of that. So, he told me to bring the car in to have the computer reset. But this morning, when I started the car, the lights were gone. Ted, the guy from VW, was all, "Great! You're in good shape!" I'm like, "What? Really? So the computer just needed 24 hours to reboot?" He's all, "Sure; it's all good." And I'm like, "Okay? Okay, I guess." And that was it. I drove the car all day today, and all was fine, so I guess all is good, as Ted said. Still, problems don't self-correct, in my experience.
ITEM!: It rained in Los Angeles today, and the people are freaking out.
Wednesday, March 9
That pic is not from my drive
There's something to be said for driving out to California at night. First of all, it's totally awesome not wasting an entire day on the road. We left Scottsdale at 5 p.m. yesterday and were in California by midnight (accounting for the time difference). And this morning, I woke up at our destination, and we had an entire day to do real stuff, like hang out in Santa Monica with my dad. I also had more energy to have dinner with my girls.
I'm totally tempted to make this the way we always drive out to California. And driving through the desert at night isn't half as boring as during the day when you can see how much flat desert is in front of you. Also, having the entire time to chat with Mom was key to the speed of the drive time going by. Having said that, I'm still a super fan of doing the drive at night.
CAR ISSUES: I had to get a new battery for my car tonight because the car wouldn't start, and also because I've had a selection of electrical issues over the last couple days that I've been ignoring. In retrospect, the battery is maybe the reason behind all the issues, as I diagnose it. Anyway, now there are some random dashboard lights on. I need to Google them.
I'm totally tempted to make this the way we always drive out to California. And driving through the desert at night isn't half as boring as during the day when you can see how much flat desert is in front of you. Also, having the entire time to chat with Mom was key to the speed of the drive time going by. Having said that, I'm still a super fan of doing the drive at night.
CAR ISSUES: I had to get a new battery for my car tonight because the car wouldn't start, and also because I've had a selection of electrical issues over the last couple days that I've been ignoring. In retrospect, the battery is maybe the reason behind all the issues, as I diagnose it. Anyway, now there are some random dashboard lights on. I need to Google them.
Monday, March 7
The perfect little pick-me-up
New Parenting Rule: Do not leave your kid and a tub of frosting home alone for the morning. One of them will not be there when you get home.
I'm not even mad that she ate it. I'm annoyed that she ate all of it. I wanted some, and the little punk powered through the rest of the tub all by herself. I was feeling all about sharing when I went to grab us a couple spoonfuls of the frosting after lunch today when I discovered that, hey now, the entire tub was almost completely empty. There wasn't even enough frosting left to fill up a single spoon.
I said to her, "Honestly? This is not even cool. If you're going to eat that much, finish it. Don't leave some cheesy little bit that won't even satisfy the next person to get it."
And that's the way to teach your kid how to be charitable to the next person. If you must take your fill, do it, but be sure there's enough for who's after you. Well, maybe that's not entirely true in the real world, but it should be law when it comes to tubs of frosting. I've been enjoying my fix of frosting over the last few days, and now I'm living without, and I'm worse off because of it.
The decadence of having a tub of sour cream in the refrigerator at all times seems to have mutated and grown stronger. I fear that a constant tub of frosting may be a little bit too much, but I'm not sure. I may have to experiment.
I'm not even mad that she ate it. I'm annoyed that she ate all of it. I wanted some, and the little punk powered through the rest of the tub all by herself. I was feeling all about sharing when I went to grab us a couple spoonfuls of the frosting after lunch today when I discovered that, hey now, the entire tub was almost completely empty. There wasn't even enough frosting left to fill up a single spoon.
I said to her, "Honestly? This is not even cool. If you're going to eat that much, finish it. Don't leave some cheesy little bit that won't even satisfy the next person to get it."
And that's the way to teach your kid how to be charitable to the next person. If you must take your fill, do it, but be sure there's enough for who's after you. Well, maybe that's not entirely true in the real world, but it should be law when it comes to tubs of frosting. I've been enjoying my fix of frosting over the last few days, and now I'm living without, and I'm worse off because of it.
The decadence of having a tub of sour cream in the refrigerator at all times seems to have mutated and grown stronger. I fear that a constant tub of frosting may be a little bit too much, but I'm not sure. I may have to experiment.
Sunday, March 6
Putting a spotlight on a good movie
Brian and I watched Spotlight tonight, and it was a really good movie. I now totally approve of the film winning Best Picture at this year's Academy Awards. I think part of what made it so amazing is that, going in, you already know that they were successful in their quest to bring the scandal to light. Also, their processes, dedication to get the story right, and passion for telling the truth are everything that is right with journalism.
And while it's a good story to be told in a movie, I appreciate how it's brought the scandal back into the nation's collective conscious, and maybe taught the movie-going public on how much work real, investigative journalists do to get the facts straight. It's not all blogs and Twitter, people. Real journalists talk to people; they ask questions in person; and they use sources that have names, not handles. Granted, this story happened in the early 2000s, before all that was available, but still, it's nice that the people can see how real journalists do their thing.
I love that there are reporters like that out there. I never had the guts to be one. I always preferred writing the puff pieces and editing from my desk. I'm super envious of the reporters who do this kind of work, and I'm glad they exist in this world. This was a really good movie, you guys, and I highly recommend it.
And while it's a good story to be told in a movie, I appreciate how it's brought the scandal back into the nation's collective conscious, and maybe taught the movie-going public on how much work real, investigative journalists do to get the facts straight. It's not all blogs and Twitter, people. Real journalists talk to people; they ask questions in person; and they use sources that have names, not handles. Granted, this story happened in the early 2000s, before all that was available, but still, it's nice that the people can see how real journalists do their thing.
I love that there are reporters like that out there. I never had the guts to be one. I always preferred writing the puff pieces and editing from my desk. I'm super envious of the reporters who do this kind of work, and I'm glad they exist in this world. This was a really good movie, you guys, and I highly recommend it.
Friday, March 4
T.G.I.Almost time to go to California
ITEM!: Sydney and I spent several minutes discussing the
health benefits and drawbacks to picking one's nose this morning. I
don't know what prompted the question of whether it is bad for you
physically. But no, it's not really bad for you. But it's not something
that is socially acceptable to do with other people around. If you have
boogers, go get a tissue and deal with it in private. She knew that, and
she does that. "It was just a question, Mom."
ITEM!: The
day has come and the lower-estrogen birth control pills have worked
their magic: I did not have a period this month! It's weird, to be sure.
And I'm just paranoid enough to wonder if I need to
pick up a pregnancy test this weekend. I did, however, still have the
munchies and yearning for cheese like normal, but honestly, it wasn't as
powerful as usual. Holy crap, you guys, what if it makes PMS go away,
too?!?! Crazy!!
ITEM!: I'm going to bed early tonight though, because I was at work until 9 p.m., and tomorrow is Super Secret Girl Day. I can't tell you what Syd and I will do all day while Brian is working, but I will tell you that it'll be fun, secret and girly.
ITEM!: I'm going to bed early tonight though, because I was at work until 9 p.m., and tomorrow is Super Secret Girl Day. I can't tell you what Syd and I will do all day while Brian is working, but I will tell you that it'll be fun, secret and girly.
Thursday, March 3
It sucks when friends move away
One of Sydney's best friends is moving out of the area next week, and Sydney is in a state about it. It doesn't help at all to point out how many times she's been the kid moving away, either. Instead, I've been dealing with tears and heaving cries for the last few days (Hannah just told her on Monday). And tonight she made Hannah this adorable card telling her how much Sydney loves her, and how much she'll miss her. "Mom, I wrote 'I (heart) you' on the card," she said to me. I guess that's not the right thing to do? I told her that I tell my friends that I love them all the time, and that especially since Hannah's leaving, she should know how much Sydney appreciates her as a friend. She liked that, so I hope she doesn't feel weird about it. Another line she wrote in the card? "I better be the one you miss the most." Which is frickin' hysterical to me, and shows me to what depths a 9-year-old will sink to turn another person's upheaval into their own personal tragedy.
What stinks is that Hannah doesn't seem to have a cell phone or email address for Sydney to communicate with her. And of course, they're all too young for any social media of any kind. So it's up to the parents to keep them friends. I'm hoping that we'll see them on Sunday this weekend before they leave, but after that, it'll be up to Hannah's mom and I to stay in touch and make lunch and/or get-together plans. It's easy enough for me, but Hannah's mom has two little babies to work around.
Sydney's going to be a mess tomorrow afternoon when I pick her up. I hope we're able to see Hannah on Sunday, but this emotional explosion is going to be a sucky way to start our spring break. It can't be said that I don't know what she's going through. I feel bad for her, certainly. And my heart breaks for her. I'll be doing lots of hugging and wiping of tears over the next few days. It's the first time she's had a friend leave her. It's harder being the one left behind.
What stinks is that Hannah doesn't seem to have a cell phone or email address for Sydney to communicate with her. And of course, they're all too young for any social media of any kind. So it's up to the parents to keep them friends. I'm hoping that we'll see them on Sunday this weekend before they leave, but after that, it'll be up to Hannah's mom and I to stay in touch and make lunch and/or get-together plans. It's easy enough for me, but Hannah's mom has two little babies to work around.
Sydney's going to be a mess tomorrow afternoon when I pick her up. I hope we're able to see Hannah on Sunday, but this emotional explosion is going to be a sucky way to start our spring break. It can't be said that I don't know what she's going through. I feel bad for her, certainly. And my heart breaks for her. I'll be doing lots of hugging and wiping of tears over the next few days. It's the first time she's had a friend leave her. It's harder being the one left behind.
Wednesday, March 2
It'll be cooler for the plants, too
The state of the flora in my home is beginning to concern me. You see, it's been super warm in my home for the last several days. I refuse to turn on the air conditioner in March, so the windows are open, and I'm hoping for breezes throughout the day, but by the time the afternoon rolls around, the sunshine is blazing. The upstairs gets toasty, and my plants aren't having it.
It's early in the cycle, but the greenery was looking very ... sad. Everyone was thirsty, and no one was happy. It was a good thing to walk through the house soaking everyone and perking them up. And I feel like a good plant mom. But now I'm worried about how quickly they'll all get dry, thirsty, sad and uncomfortable again.
Holy crap, it can't possibly be time to turn the a/c on again, can it? According to the nifty weather app on my phone, it'll cool down significantly next week, which should make everyone happier.
... I hate talking about the weather. At least, my plants will be happier, too.
By the way, this room in the photo here is almost perfect. It's all bright and Ikea-awesome, and chockablock with happy, green plants. I love all the white going on there. Some day, I'll have, not a living room like this, but a reading nook like this. Packed full of cozy chairs and sunshine, with so many plants and books. I can't imagine a better room ever.
It's early in the cycle, but the greenery was looking very ... sad. Everyone was thirsty, and no one was happy. It was a good thing to walk through the house soaking everyone and perking them up. And I feel like a good plant mom. But now I'm worried about how quickly they'll all get dry, thirsty, sad and uncomfortable again.
Holy crap, it can't possibly be time to turn the a/c on again, can it? According to the nifty weather app on my phone, it'll cool down significantly next week, which should make everyone happier.
... I hate talking about the weather. At least, my plants will be happier, too.
By the way, this room in the photo here is almost perfect. It's all bright and Ikea-awesome, and chockablock with happy, green plants. I love all the white going on there. Some day, I'll have, not a living room like this, but a reading nook like this. Packed full of cozy chairs and sunshine, with so many plants and books. I can't imagine a better room ever.
Tuesday, March 1
Color that grey right outta my hair ... later
This month's avatar is brought to you by GREY HAIR. You see, she's dressed all old-timey like back before there was decent hair color, and all women who were married with children had grey hair that they could do nothing about.
Which is kinda like me, right now, because I have more grey hair than I can handle in a sane way. And I could color it myself, but I won't do it now because I see Malia next week. Although I guess, in theory, I should experiment now, since it would only be a matter of days until Malia could fix what I would screw up. But then I'd have messed up hair for everyone I see prior to a week from Friday. So, no, I'll deal with the copious amounts of grey hair I've got going on. But it is horrifying me, no joke.
I think I've found somewhere to get my color more regularly, after my visit with Malia next week, of course, and I'm eager to start having color-color in my hair again because I'll have a local place to maintain it.
But for now, I'm avoiding close contact with mirrors because I have too much grey hair, like the ladies in olden times.
Which is kinda like me, right now, because I have more grey hair than I can handle in a sane way. And I could color it myself, but I won't do it now because I see Malia next week. Although I guess, in theory, I should experiment now, since it would only be a matter of days until Malia could fix what I would screw up. But then I'd have messed up hair for everyone I see prior to a week from Friday. So, no, I'll deal with the copious amounts of grey hair I've got going on. But it is horrifying me, no joke.
I think I've found somewhere to get my color more regularly, after my visit with Malia next week, of course, and I'm eager to start having color-color in my hair again because I'll have a local place to maintain it.
But for now, I'm avoiding close contact with mirrors because I have too much grey hair, like the ladies in olden times.
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